So my last day in Rome was pretty special, because it was probably one of the first days in my entire life that I’ve been alone in a foreign country with no ties and nothing in particular to do. My day was entirely open and up to me. And that’s a lot of responsibility. Although i was somewhat alone in Tel Aviv, I still had some responsibilities and connections to the people at the hostel. But this was different; a day full of promise. First I’ll describe what I did, and then I’ll address more about why I’m so excited about it.
After my first night in the Alessandro Downtown Hostel (which was a great place to stay; cheap, clean, near the central train station, very backpacker-friendly, free sangria) I got up bright and early to make my way to the Colosseum. Yuliya had visited before I got to Rome, so we didn’t go together. I walked through a beautiful park on my way there.
TRAVEL PRO-TIP: Y’all know I try to be pretty budget-conscious, and after some research, I concluded that the best way to cheaply see the main sights of Rome was to buy a solo ticket and listen to Rick Steves’ free audio tours. Let me reiterate: RICK STEVES IS MY HOMEBOY. My family has used his guidebooks before, and I recently discovered that he has free walking audiotours of many famous sights around Europe. Yeah buddy Rick hooks you up. So really, I didn’t spend my day alone; I listened to three entire audiotours. And it was awesome.
The Colosseum is obviously awe-inspiring and an architectural masterpiece, but for some reason, the Roman Forum was more impressive to me. Maybe I wasn’t paying attention last time I was here, or maybe it was because the audioguide was so good, but I feel like I learned so much more about it (and got a much better understanding of ancient Rome).
One of the things I found most mind-boggling was the Basilica. Originally, that term was used for a Roman public court building; it later became the term for a church. Even though only about a quarter of the basilica in the forum remained standing, I was awestruck by it’s enormity.
After seeing the first two sites, I grabbed a fancy lunch at Emma, a restaurant recommended to me by my friend Ander. I had an delicious artichoke salad and pasta cacio e pepe (cheese and pepper, an Italian classic).
However, since it was my last day, I had to indulge and get a slice of (INCREDIBLE) pizza on my way to my third stop.
Next, I took a tour of the Jewish Ghetto of Rome, a historically-rich area area I had known nothing about. Educate yo-self here (about the ghetto’s creation and the oppression of Jews up to the 20th century) and here (about the suffering of the Roman Jews during the Holocaust). One of the most interesting things I learned is that Roman Jews are neither Ashkenazi or Sephardic – they are descended directly from ancient Israeli Jews. It definitely gave me a kick to see Hebrew on walls and kosher restaurants in this area.
The rest of my night was chill. I have to say though, I think I’m beginning to understand the beauty of traveling alone. You can pause, breathe, rest, read, move faster or slower whenever you like (not to mention, of course, you get to choose exactly what you want to do). But at the same time, you only have to be alone when you want to be. It was incredibly easy for me to befriend a group of German girls over sangria, and to grab coffee with a new friend the following morning (Juliet, who just came from Verona. How perfect is that?!) While there are dangers associated with solo travel, especially as a woman, I can’t help but think that the benefits outweigh the risk. In addition to you know, seeing awesome places, I think the potential for personal growth is massive; I cannot think of a better way to become more independent and learn about yourself. In the past few months, I’ve met tons of spunky ladies that have either taken solo trips, or are in the middle of them. Once my time in Israel is done, I would love to spend some time traveling alone, and/or with friends that I just haven’t met yet.
Clearly, I got lucky on my flight home. Also, I will never get over how good the food on Turkish Airlines is.
NEVER.
So this concludes my time in Italy. This was probably the best consecutive week-and-a-half of food that I’ve ever had. I got to travel with some wonderful people, make new friends, and experience Italian culture and life. Italy has firmly cemented itself as one of my favourite places I’ve ever been. Now, back to Israel I go, to begin a new adventure – Jerusalem.